So, we now have dates to look forward to. Whether we agree with them or not, at least we know what to expect. Not sure I can cope with another 7 weeks of my wild hair or my husband’s hair for that matter. I am a woman who can not cut hair at all… Anyway, things could be worse so I am not really complaining.
I have found the lack of interaction and seeing family and friends the hardest part of this. My one daughter is in north London so that’s been a no go and the other is in Berlin. Even harder to see her.
Lack of connection and certainty are the 2 human needs that have affected the majority of people the most. Loneliness and isolation is devastating at any time but this past year has increased this immensely.
There is far too much negativity around us and I find it hard to watch the news in the evening so I don’t anymore. That is my way of protecting myself before going to bed. By controlling the controllable, we can help ourselves to feel better and find solutions and positivity rather than focussing on the things we can’t do anything about. I think many of us have found ways to keep our spirits up and what works for us and our families. We are all different so what works for me, might not work for you.
However, when we talk about the silver linings in situations there have been some even through this pandemic. For many, the new connection with neighbours has been an immense help and also lovely to make new friends, being able to help others in one way or another has also added to the feel good factors. For some families and couples spending this much time together has enabled them to really get to know each other and enjoy each others’ company. For some school kids, the appreciation of school and their friends will increase and hopefully remain for some time.
What has been the silver lining for you? What have you learnt about yourself? Your friends and family? What would you do differently, if anything?
I hope most of us have grown as people and learnt to appreciate things we took for granted before. I know I have. It’s been tough but we are almost there. I, for one, can’t wait to see family and friends again! I miss them, and my hairdresser…
Take care of each other!
